I’ve just had sex for the first time with my new boyfriend and he didn’t orgasm.
Should I be insulted that he didn’t come?
Should he be insulted that you didn’t either?
I’m not psychic, it’s just that very, very few women have an orgasm via intercourse the first time they have sex with a new partner. (Lots don’t have an orgasm the other 10,000 times either, but that’s another story.)
I know, I know, it’s much easier for him to climax than you so it’s different.
But the reason behind him not coming is the same reason you didn’t: the pressure is on and you’re both out to impress.